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Question #21·1 September 2026·revealed

You see your friend's partner kissing someone else. What do you do?

92 people answered on 1 September 2026. 59% said Tell your friend now.

Tell your friend now58.7%
Confront the partner first23.9%
Stay out of it17.4%

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92
votes on this question
6
published country breakdowns
56%
of 85 predictors called the winner

By country

Tell your friend nowConfront the partner firstStay out of it
🇺🇸 USA 32
6922
Everywhere else 31
6523

By age

Tell your friend nowConfront the partner firstStay out of it
25 to 34 29
6921
Everywhere else 37
543016

By profession

Tell your friend nowConfront the partner firstStay out of it
Everywhere else 38
552618
Biggest gap: 25 to 34 put the winning answer at 69%, against 58.7% of all participants.

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Self-selected online poll, no accounts: one vote per browser per day, capped per network address to limit repeat voting. Country derived at the network edge; age and profession self-reported from fixed lists. Buckets under 25 votes fold into "Everywhere else"; buckets under 5 are never published. Not weighted, not representative of any population.